Stress-Free Living

Becoming love...

2011-09-01T22:10:00.001-07:00

It is only when you become love instead of practicing love that you are able to deliver love unconditionally.

Love as an asset...

2011-08-31T09:06:00.001-07:00

Love can be either a major liability or an asset. It is often misused and abused because of our personal agendas, emotional baggage, insecurities, attachments, and egos. This type of love will only create stress, breakups, and agony. The love that becomes an asset is the love that is completely immersed in Oneness.

Love...

2011-08-29T20:35:00.001-07:00

Love not operating in Oneness is not true love. True love is always unconditional and completely free from the influences and contaminations of our egos, insecurities, greed, possessions, and our conditions and expectations. Such a love is all-inclusive and complete, and it is only at this stage that love is God.

Selfless, unconditional love...

2011-08-28T21:12:00.000-07:00

Selfless, unconditional love inspires peace and harmony in us and sets us free. Selfish and possessive love instigates stress and conflict and imprisons us.

Becoming enslaved...

2011-08-27T22:22:00.001-07:00

Our concept of freedom is a misnomer because there is no freedom except freedom from self. All other freedoms merely add greater responsibilities, which end up enslaving us.

The fundamental tenant for true civilization...

2011-08-27T03:17:00.001-07:00

While freedom is essential for not only survival, security, prosperity, creativity, and harmony, it is a fundamental tenant for true civilization ― Oneness ― to flourish and evolve.

Freedom...

2011-08-26T01:34:00.001-07:00

Freedom is all about freeing ourselves from us ― our bad habits, indulgences, and selfish agendas ― which requires personal integrity. But to sustain it, we need, in addition to integrity, unconditional love and respect for others.

Letting go of our egos...

2011-08-25T03:27:00.001-07:00

True freedom comes from sacrificing our indulgent freedoms and embarking on disciplines that help us serve the bigger One. To do that, we must let go of our ownership mindset and our agendas ― which are a reflection of our insecurities, essentially, our egos ― by completely immersing in the bigger One.

Real freedom...

2011-08-24T02:58:00.001-07:00

Real freedom lies right within us. To find that true freedom, we have to unveil the entity that is truly free residing within us, the divine power.

What is life?

2011-08-23T04:47:00.001-07:00

What is life? Life is a manifestation of universal energy implanted in us as universal consciousness to serve the bigger One unconditionally. Therefore, our purpose ― looking through the lens of this reality ― is to serve the bigger One by adding the highest value in every thought and action.

Staying in the Oneness mindset...

2011-08-22T03:44:00.001-07:00

To enjoy true freedom, learn to stay in the Oneness mindset, which will free you from all your worries, insecurities, pain, anger, and dependence on all your worldly crutches.

Our real freedom...

2011-08-21T04:06:00.000-07:00

It is our human body that imprisons us and it is our awareness of our true self that resides in our body that frees us up. All our freedoms are tied to our human body mode, whereas it is the human body that enforces the imprisonment. Our real freedom can only be achieved joy are shallow and unsustainable as they are tied to pleasing our five senses, until they are tied to the joy of the bigger One.

Learning from our religions...

2011-08-20T03:05:00.000-07:00

What we learn from our religions cannot be put to use until we let go of our dogma and focus instead on its core message of universal love and serving the One in all and all in One.

Duality...

2011-08-19T03:42:00.001-07:00

It’s not possible to be moral until we are spiritual. It isn’t possible to be spiritual until you remove duality. When we operate in Oneness, we remove the illusion of duality and become aligned to the universal moral code and get out of the insidious trap of right & wrong, good & bad, superior & inferior and thus stay free of being judgmental.

Living harmoniously...

2011-08-18T04:19:00.001-07:00

All judgment comes from insecurity and an irrational urge to feel superior to others. This thought process only pollutes, debilitates, and stresses us without adding any value to ourselves or anyone around us. To live harmoniously in the true joy of loving, serving and giving, avoid the poisonous trap of judging others.

Being an obstacle...

2011-08-17T03:44:00.001-07:00

The harder we try, the more we ourselves become an obstacle. To unveil life’s greatest wisdom and receive its unlimited resources, just get out of its way. Then we’ll begin to see life falling into place and live stress free in joy and total harmony with everything around us.

True listening...

2011-08-16T03:55:00.001-07:00

True listening is an art and discipline motivated and inspired by unconditional respect.

To get the most out of your religion...

2011-08-15T03:49:00.001-07:00

Every religion at its core originated from Oneness. However, our own insecurities have derailed us from this core truth and instilled segregation, outright hatred, and conflict between religions. To get the most out of your religion, return to its core of Oneness and begin to see all in One and One in all.

Seeing God in all...

2011-08-14T04:20:00.001-07:00

If you can’t see God in all, you can’t see God at all! The messenger pointing to the path is not the path itself. All our spiritual gurus, avatars, saints, prophets, and even those we call gods incarnate are only messengers pointing to a path that helps us unveil the Divine residing within all of us. We will be completely misdirected and deluded if, instead of following the path, we begin worshiping the messenger.

Judging others...

2011-08-13T03:09:00.001-07:00

Our human systems are not equipped to judge others, as all our opinions are based on the extremely limited data gathered by our five senses. However, we have everything we need to add value to whomever we come across, thereby fulfilling our sole mission in life of serving the bigger One present in everyone.

True spirituality...

2011-08-12T03:55:00.001-07:00

To see and feel God, look for God in everyone you come across including your own self, as true spirituality is simply the absence of duality.

Making a positive difference...

2011-08-11T03:53:00.000-07:00

Engage your mind and energies in making a positive difference in all your encounters and endeavors and all your worries, loneliness, prejudices, insecurities, and stress will go away.

Seeking our future...

2011-08-10T03:47:00.000-07:00

Instead of looking for answers or explanations as to what lies in your future, simply and selflessly engage unconditionally ― without hesitation, reservations, or conditions ― in adding the highest value in every thought and action and your future will take care of itself.

Sustainable confidence...

2011-08-09T03:34:00.001-07:00

Confidence that comes from your past performances, possessions, and trophies is unsustainable and always misconstrued. True, sustainable confidence is a primary outcome of your vision and passion to stay on the path of adding the highest value in every thought and action.

Unveiling true answers...

2011-08-08T04:02:00.001-07:00

All our confusion and complications arise from constantly focusing on incomplete, irrelevant, and contaminated data. To unveil the true answers that always reside within us, simply focus on serving the One present in everyone by adding the highest value in every thought and action.

Intrinsic goodness...

2011-08-07T04:58:00.001-07:00

When you see everyone through the lens of Oneness, you focus on their intrinsic goodness rather than the lack thereof. You then begin to notice and acknowledge people doing things right. This empowers, inspires, and nurtures their inherent capacity to excel and do more good.

Life is a team sport...

2011-08-06T04:20:00.001-07:00

Through the clarity of Oneness, it becomes clear that life is a team sport. To play it at your peak yet stress free, learn the art of open and honest communication to gain the trust of your team and elevate its performance.

Focusing on the Divine within...

2011-08-05T03:42:00.001-07:00

A continuous focus on the Divine within you will minimize the clutter and noise of worldly desires and rights and wrongs. “Less then becomes more.” But it is only when you completely reduce the noise and clutter to zero and see nothing but Divinity in everyone that “nothing becomes everything.”

Less is more...

2011-08-04T03:57:00.001-07:00

Less is more and nothing is everything.

God within our hearts...

2011-08-03T03:35:00.000-07:00

Our lives would dramatically change if we realized that God only resides in our uncontaminated and warm hearts rather than the most magnificently built churches and temples.

Habits...

2011-08-02T04:16:00.001-07:00

We are our habits. Generally, our habits are cultivated by our insecurities, fear, greed, ego, and hidden motives. Such habits cause stress and imprison us. Habits cultivated within the wisdom of Oneness not only set us free, but position us for stress-free success.

True love...

2011-08-01T03:41:00.001-07:00

What we often call love is merely possessiveness resulting from our insecurities, which always divides and suffocates. When love originates from Oneness, it involves sacrifice and is practiced without conditions or expectations. Only this love has the power to liberate and unify us, and becomes our inner strength when practiced selflessly.

Practicing kindness...

2011-07-31T04:07:00.001-07:00

We often practice kindness when it is convenient and beneficial to us. But a true act of kindness is a miraculous collaboration of a pure heart and a clear mind done without reservations or conditions.

Making your heart the boss...

2011-07-30T03:56:00.000-07:00

When our minds rule, we are enslaved. When our hearts rule, we are liberated. Mind divides, heart unites; mind is full of questions, truth lies in the heart; mind inflicts pain and suffering, heart provides healing and harmony; mind houses information and data, heart houses Divine wisdom. To live stress-free, make your heart the boss and mind an obedient servant, and your life will fall into place.

Being special...

2011-07-29T04:03:00.000-07:00

In Oneness, everyone is special. However, the only way to feel special is to treat others special ― unconditionally.

Truth...

2011-07-28T03:46:00.001-07:00

The absence of truth minimizes and imprisons us, whereas the presence of truth enhances us and sets us free. However, truth without Oneness is only an illusion.

Being untruthful and unethical...

2011-07-27T03:52:00.001-07:00

We will be contaminated with fear, insecurity, greed, selfishness, and stress ― causing us to be untruthful and unethical ― when we are guided by the falsehoods of our illusionary ego. It is only the wisdom of Oneness when fully comprehended and lived that makes us automatically and effortlessly truthful, ethical, and free of contaminants.

Becoming goodness itself...

2011-07-26T03:46:00.001-07:00

Instead of doing good deeds, become goodness itself. Doing good is tied to our need for recognition fueled by our insecurities and egos ― the absence of Oneness. In Oneness, we are free of ego, conditions and agendas, and only goodness comes out of us ― thus making us goodness itself.

The Power within you...

2011-07-25T03:56:00.001-07:00

Stop looking everywhere else because the Power is within you. To activate and avail yourself of this Power, simply undertake projects that unconditionally add value and serve others around you. Not only will you overcome the quicksand of self-pity and depression but become energized, joy-filled, and live stress-free.

Celebrating life...

2011-07-24T03:53:00.000-07:00

To live an enriched, meaningful and stress-free life, we must gratefully and joyfully celebrate life and the amazing gifts it brings us instead of desiring and mourning the things we don’t have, but feel we have a right to and deserve.

Unveiling Divine goodness...

2011-07-23T03:00:00.001-07:00

Goodness in its purest form is a reflection of the Divine that resides within all of us. To unveil that Divine goodness within you simply remove contaminants such as fear, greed, prejudice, insecurity, ego, and self-centered agendas ― but how?

Staying in the present...

2011-07-22T03:36:00.001-07:00

True spirituality occurs in the present. The only thing that can sustain us in the present is experiencing and feeling the presence of the Divine within us and in everything around us, and becoming One with it. It is only then we make our past obsolete, the future irrelevant, truly live in the present, eliminate duality, and become spiritual.

Operating in the present...

2011-07-21T03:06:00.001-07:00

Stay and operate in the present. This state will not only free you from all your worries and stress, but also help you lead yourself. It is through leading yourself that you will be able to achieve your true mission in life: Serving the Divine by creatively engaging in making a lasting and positive difference to everyone around you.

Fulfilling our resolutions...

2011-07-20T03:14:00.000-07:00

Clarity of purpose ― through the wisdom of Oneness ― motivates and sustains us to practice self-discipline to fulfill our resolutions more than sheer willpower can.

Knowing our own reality...

2011-07-19T03:22:00.001-07:00

It is not possible to truly respect, trust, and know others until we first know our own reality ― reflected through Oneness. It is only then we are in a position to trust and respect ourselves and others.

Reality...

2011-07-18T03:59:00.001-07:00

The things in life that appear to be real are not. That is why reality escapes us, and we end up wasting our entire life chasing falsehoods.

The sum total of all truth...

2011-07-17T04:40:00.000-07:00

Knowledge will always remain incomplete as it is collected by our limited five senses. The sum total of all truth is found within the wisdom already existing within us.

Serving selflessly...

2011-07-16T03:06:00.000-07:00

When we act selfishly and subtract value, we end up frustrated, stressed, and insecure. It is only when we act as we are designed by the Divine Power to selflessly serve and add value that we are happy, content, and secure.

Your self-healing power...

2011-07-15T03:28:00.000-07:00

The self-healing power that has always existed within you is simply the true you that is a part of the Supreme Power Itself.

Trust...

2011-07-14T03:37:00.001-07:00

The trust we earn from others is merely a reflection of and inspired by how honest we are with ourselves.

Creating our own luck...

2011-07-13T03:45:00.001-07:00

We often consider another person’s success and happiness as luck. We can create our own luck by becoming a value-adding entity, making a difference in every interaction.

Religions...

2011-07-12T03:48:00.001-07:00

Religions, in their most positive light, are merely schools of spirituality with the sole purpose being to upgrade us from our selfish, five senses-driven animal level to a value-adding, selfless, true human level.

Adding the highest value unconditionally...

2011-07-11T03:02:00.001-07:00

When our every thought and action is driven by adding the highest value unconditionally, at that point, our thought becomes a prayer and our act a worship. It is only then we begin to truly practice Oneness and serve the Divine.

Language...

2011-07-10T04:21:00.001-07:00

All the words we use are limited and contaminated with our experiences or lack thereof. It is only when we see and feel from the window of Oneness that their core message leads us to the same place. Instead of getting lost in the definition of gratefulness, respect, trust, kindness, love, wisdom, spirituality, etc., simply immerse in the Oneness thought process where all becomes One and One becomes all.

Respectfulness...

2011-07-09T03:03:00.001-07:00

Respectfulness ― immersed in the Oneness paradigm ― is far more powerful and empowering than authority or worldly titles.

Acceptance...

2011-07-08T03:49:00.001-07:00

Unconditional and grateful acceptance is extremely empowering as it frees us from the chains of the past and gifts us with opportunities for the present.

Oneness...

2011-07-07T03:55:00.001-07:00

Oneness is not a religion, cult, philosophy, or mythology. It is a simple yet profound truth and it only means that every being and everything around us is part of an integral One. Any decision that embraces this thought process can never be wrong. Not only is it always empowering and fulfilling, but the essential core of every sustainable relationship, endeavor, happiness, and success in life.

Visualization...

2011-07-06T03:26:00.001-07:00

In Oneness, life can be at your command. Whatever you visualize with clarity, you can realize with certainty ― as long as you are totally immersed in the uncontested truth of Oneness and remain free of selfish agendas and ego, which derail, debilitate, and imprison you.

Contentment...

2011-07-05T02:24:00.001-07:00

It may be rather difficult to find contentment within oneself, but it is absolutely impossible to find it anywhere else.

True happiness...

2011-07-04T03:17:00.001-07:00

True happiness is achieved through Oneness, which is understood and practiced through spirituality. The pre-requisite to spirituality is unconditional and unending gratefulness. The pre-requisite to gratefulness is our capacity and capability to find and nurture goodness in every thought and action.

What we should focus on...

2011-07-03T03:46:00.001-07:00

We waste our lives noticing all that’s wrong with the world while constantly focusing on “What’s in it for me?” What we should be focusing on is what is right with the world and making a positive difference to others by adding the highest value in every situation unconditionally.

Following your true purpose...

2011-07-02T01:49:00.001-07:00

When things happen to you and around you that don’t make sense, just follow your true purpose in life, which is to unconditionally add value and make a difference.

Inner strength and balance...

2011-07-01T03:07:00.001-07:00

All our inner strength and balance comes from being truthful. However, you cannot be truthful until you realize, understand, and live the truth about your own true self residing within you that is not tied to your gender, color, age, race, profession, nationality, etc. Furthermore, this realization allows you to see the same truth in every being.

True wealth...

2011-06-29T02:25:00.001-07:00

True wealth is reflected in our character, strength is reflected in our kindness, generosity is reflected in our gratefulness, wisdom is reflected in our selflessness, and ultimate truth is reflected when we see and feel Divinity in every living being.

Memories...

2011-06-28T03:16:00.001-07:00

Bad memories are like smelly garbage, depressing you and causing pain every time you revisit them. Good memories always inspire gratefulness, bring a smile, and lighten your heart.

Our minds...

2011-06-27T02:38:00.001-07:00

Our minds are always full of thoughts that are generally directed by our insecurities, fear, greed, indulgences, expectations, agendas, and egos ― all of which is distracting and, ultimately, destructive noise.

Ego and humility...

2011-06-26T04:32:00.001-07:00

Ultimately, there’s no difference between ego and humility. They both come from the same confusion originating from our misunderstanding of who we are.

The unchangeable laws of the universe...

2011-06-25T04:36:00.000-07:00

Why are we so enamored and obsessed with the changeable laws and traditions that are made by us and completely ignore the unchangeable laws of the universe that made us, and everything else around us?

True motivation...

2011-06-24T01:39:00.000-07:00

True motivation to embark upon and sustain your discipline only occurs when the purpose of your life is clear and is totally endorsed by your true self.

Your integrated self...

2011-06-23T03:40:00.000-07:00

No one can harm you more than your own disintegrated self ― and no one can help you more than your integrated self.

The ultimate truth...

2011-06-22T03:20:00.001-07:00

The ultimate truth is hidden in the unseen rather than what you see with your eyes. Look through the eyes of your awakened consciousness instead of your body and the truth will be unveiled.

Our character...

2011-06-21T03:31:00.000-07:00

Our character is shaped more by the questions planted within our being rather than the information and knowledge we gather.

Understanding and patience...

2011-06-20T02:58:00.001-07:00

Understanding and patience come from realizing that you are an integral part of everyone. That gives you your sole purpose in life, to serve them. To do that, you must have the patience to understand their needs.

Religion and spirituality...

2011-06-19T04:34:00.000-07:00

Religion makes you believe in God, but it is spirituality that makes you see and feel God.

True nirvana...

2011-06-18T03:47:00.001-07:00

True nirvana doesn’t come from giving things up, but through the realization that it’s impossible to own anything, including our human body. Everything we have is simply allocated to us temporarily to serve the bigger One unconditionally. Let us be grateful for these gifted allocations.

Losing freedom...

2011-06-17T03:18:00.001-07:00

We often lose our freedom because we let others’ contaminants contaminate us.

Trust, honesty and respect...

2011-06-16T03:31:00.001-07:00

Trust, honesty and respect are wonderful virtues to have, yet they can only be lived when you have a complete absence of duality and are immersed in Oneness unconditionally.

Being spiritually, mentally, and physically healthy...

2011-06-15T03:09:00.001-07:00

There are a million ways to be sick and a million ways to treat illness, but there is only one way to be spiritually, mentally, and physically healthy ― living and being in Oneness.

Universal wisdom...

2011-06-14T03:24:00.001-07:00

Universal wisdom and its endless creativity and abundant resources are only available to you when you live and operate in the present.

Doing ordinary things in an extraordinary manner...

2011-06-13T03:10:00.000-07:00

Once you begin to operate in Oneness, you are instinctively empowered to do ordinary things in an extraordinary manner, which puts you on a path of consistent, stress-free success.

Mind versus heart...

2011-06-12T04:46:00.000-07:00

Often, our minds segregate us because all of the experiences gathered by our minds are incomplete and erroneous. Whereas our heart unites us as it is directly connected to the bigger One.

Opportunities...

2011-06-11T02:59:00.001-07:00

People who see difficulties and obstacles as opportunities to serve and add the highest value understand the secret of happiness and success.

Getting out of our way...

2011-06-10T03:59:00.000-07:00

Unconditional loving, serving, and giving cannot happen until we get out of the way.

True education...

2011-06-09T04:19:00.001-07:00

True education is the art of unveiling the truth through constant learning and sharing by always remaining a student & teacher simultaneously.

Life is a journey...

2011-06-08T03:41:00.001-07:00

Life is a journey, not a destination. Our ultimate success depends on how well we are able to focus on each step of our journey. The destination will then take care of itself.

The primary goal of life...

2011-06-07T03:59:00.001-07:00

The primary goal of life is to break the cycle of birth & death. We are in this cycle to resolve the karma we create, both good and bad. To break this cycle, we must detach from both karmas and see the real doer behind everything ― the Divine ― at which time we become merely a witness, not the doer. When this happens, we become a conduit for the Divine and become pure goodness rather than just doing good deeds.

Depression...

2011-06-06T03:34:00.001-07:00

The best way to get out of depression is to undertake projects ― unconditionally and without reservation ― that add value to everyone and everything around you.

Uninhibited gratefulness...

2011-06-05T03:59:00.001-07:00

Our capacity to express uninhibited gratefulness reflects the extent of our selflessness.

Understanding...

2011-06-04T03:06:00.000-07:00

The moment you feel you understand everything, be assured you understand nothing.

The secret of happiness...

2011-06-03T03:32:00.001-07:00

Most of the time, the secret of happiness lies not in finding the right answers, but in unveiling the right questions.

Ego & selflessness...

2011-06-02T03:49:00.001-07:00

Ego divides, selflessness unites.

Removing contaminations...

2011-06-01T03:42:00.000-07:00

When you focus on removing your contaminations ― prejudice, fear, greed, indulgences, and all ego-driven agendas ― you won’t have to seek God, God will come through you naturally and effortlessly.

To find who you truly are...

2011-05-31T04:11:00.001-07:00

To find who you truly are, look deeply into your eyes in a mirror and witness the Divine Force within you, the real you. Caution: This awareness will quickly be overwhelmed and negated by ego, insecurity, fear, and greed. Therefore, choose to continuously and unconditionally live and express the presence of this Divinity within yourself and everyone you come across.

Conquering anything...

2011-05-30T03:19:00.000-07:00

Before you can conquer anything, you have to conquer yourself ― and before you can conquer yourself, you have to know who you are.

Unconditional gratefulness...

2011-05-29T03:33:00.001-07:00

Unconditional gratefulness is the most empowering mindset as it leaves no room for complaints, negativity, self-pity, and all self-inflicted miseries.

Uncompromising success...

2011-05-28T03:46:00.001-07:00

True, uncompromising success is the art of never accepting mediocrity or failure.

The true power of a message...

2011-05-27T03:42:00.000-07:00

The true power of a message comes from living the message rather than delivering it.

True friendship...

2011-05-26T05:33:00.001-07:00

True friendship is the art of being a friend rather than accumulating friends.

True love...

2011-05-25T03:50:00.001-07:00

True love is the art of complete surrender of our ego and selfish agendas to the bigger ONE.

True confidence...

2011-05-24T04:19:00.001-07:00

True confidence comes from realizing that the ultimate power is within you.